Timeless personal finance advice to fill your mind and, hopefully, your wallet
I Googled “Personal Finance Advice” just to see what AI would say. Wow, what came out closely resembled the outline for every personal finance course I’ve ever taught. Hey, wait! Everyone wants to know if people are cheating by using AI, but what if Uncle AI is stealing from us?!
All kidding aside, the advice was solid, no complaints. But, of course, it reads like a textbook. It’s technical and mechanical. There is just no personal in its personal finance content, and while I am not here to offer a referendum on the use of AI in general, I am here to talk about personal finance advice. I’m here to talk about impactful, effective, and lasting personal finance advice.
It Takes a Long Time to Turn a Big Boat
I don’t know who said that or what it was in reference to, but I love it, and I feel it. My financial boat has never been very big, but it certainly was at one time headed in the wrong direction, and it took a village of voices and encouragement to change its course. Ultimately, it required my own action to make a real difference, but I wasn’t alone. For me, the first and loudest voice was Dave Ramsey.
Dave’s shows are sometimes endless rants of one classic quote after another, but to follow my own rules, I must pick a #1.
“Live like no one else so that someday you can live like no one else.”
Translation into language that my formerly bad-money-decision driven mind could understand; stop using credit cards and car loans to buy things you can’t afford but that you think you should have because other people do… And then down the road you might be able to live without constantly worrying about money.
I can’t move on without at least one more from Dave.
“Be weird.”
This usually comes after he lays out what the average American does when it comes to money; spends too much, borrows too much, lives beyond their means too much. So, he pushes us to go against that, to spend less than we make, to budget, to drive used cars, to think about our future selves. I’m not totally there, but the more I keep at it, the weirder I get.
Facing Our Financial Realities
Suze Orman has to be on any list of folks who talk money, and one of her sayings left a huge impression on me when I was struggling to make better decisions.
“Live in your truth.”
I think the full quote might be, “Stop lying to yourself and live in your truth”, but the second part is what hit me hard. There are many areas where this advice can be applied to our financial lives. In my case, it scored the most points when it came to cars. Even when I understood the numbers, even when it was clearly beyond my means to get (another) new car, I did it anyway! I tricked myself into believing false narratives about repairs, refinancing, and rates. I still fumble with money, but I strive to be in a place where when I know I am not making the best choice, I accept the opportunity cost, move on, and live in that truth.
Check out this post for more insight into my perspective on car loans.
Digging into My Money Mindset
Can I quote an entire book or two? If so, it would be these two books from Maine’s own Dr. Sarah Newcomb:
- Loaded: Money, Psychology, and How to Get Ahead without Leaving Your Values Behind
- I Hate Money: Understanding Your Financial Attitude
I met Sarah several years ago at a Maine Jump$tart event, and although by that time I was in better shape with my own money, her presentations and books gave me a huge boost as a teacher of personal finance. It’s nearly impossible to choose a single quote or catchphrase to capture the impact of Sarah’s work, but I can say that it led me to spend more time on the psychological aspects of our money decisions and even led to me writing a little story about my own early experiences with money.
“When it comes to money, we’ve all got issues.”
Simple. Direct. Powerful. Memorable. Thank you, Sarah.
This Is about the Benjamin
Finally, no writing on this topic would be complete without a nod to perhaps the master of sensibility, Benjamin Franklin. We all know or should know, “A penny saved is a penny earned.” Could that be the most classic and well-known money quote of all time? Maybe, but I recently found this one, and it’s quickly becoming a go-to, even though it comes with the risk that I sometimes have to translate its meaning (that includes me as well, as I had to look it up!).
“Six Pounds a Year is but a Groat a Day.”
This is a perfect compliment to my work at FAME as me and my colleagues offer this advice in many ways, whether we are discussing personal finance or saving for education. In our dialect it means something like small money decisions can have a big impact down the road, every little bit helps or watch out for how those “small” monthly expenses add up over the course of a year.
And Really Finally…
I’ve developed a few of my own sayings over the years. Not sure if I’ll ever be considered “quotable”, but here goes.
On the power of economics, “If someone tells you that something is free, put your hand on your wallet, back away slowly, find the real cost.”
On the reasons why to save and invest, “Take part in the economy or it will take a part of you.”